5 Tips For Relationship Success

I hope that you are enjoying your PDF’s and most importantly applying them to your life. Today I would like to share a few relationship tips, that can ensure success in your relationships. I am talking specifically about non-marital relationships, although some of these can apply in marriage too.

1. You are equal. All men are created equal, in humanity. No one is superior to another person in their humanity, self worth, importance, and God’s love for them. Remembering this […]

Life Lessons From Ekene Onu

Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola! 
Today I am sharing some word of wisdom shared by Ekene Onu. Ekene is a coach, a consultant, and a speaker who helps high potential women achieve soulful success.
Read on…
I’m reflecting on lessons I have learned over the years.
1. Resilience doesn’t mean never being hurt. It means having a quick recovery time. It also means you learn how to quickly get back up and pivot when you fall or make a mistake. In […]

10 Quotes That Changed My Life

Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola!
Do you have any particular quotes or sayings that have been life changing for you?

Here are 10 quotes that make me think every time I read, or hear them:

1.Do something everyday that brings you closer to fulfilling your dream. Do not dedicate more to fulfilling the dreams of others than your own.

2.Marriage isn’t a passion-fest; it’s more like a partnership formed to run a very small, mundane, nonprofit business.

3. If you are approval […]

Readers Are Leaders! Are You A Reader?

Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola!
I hope that you have enjoyed reading 2017 Life Tips From Life Coach! It is a good idea to print it out and put it on your wall, or vision board or even your desk, where you can review it from time to time.

In addition to the above I would like to share with you some of my other resources which I am really excited about.
Do you have a culture of reading? As […]

New Year Gift.

Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola!


Balanced Lifer, I hope that you are ready to hit the ground running in 2017!
Here is my latest book/PDF, a free download with important tips for life, balance and success in 2017.



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Warm regards
Dr Shola Ezeokoli

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The Balanced Marriage: The Five Pillars Of Marital Bliss


Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola! As promised, I will be doing more posts along the lines of marriage, and this is an introduction to:


(The Five Pillars of Balanced: Marriage Edition)If you are familiar with the concept of  balanced living, the you will realize that anyone who is living a fulfilled life is to some degree living a balanced life, taking care of the five pillars of balance, namely: physical health, mental soundness, emotional wellness, spiritual […]

Do You Think Like This?

Welcome back to Balance with Dr Shola! 
As a life coach, I constantly meet people with mindsets that do not serve them! Their very thoughts hamper their life progress.

I heard this preached as a sermon by a great woman of God Pastor Mayowa Ijisesan. She has a very practical, balanced, easy-to-relate-to approach to the gospel and life. This is the “Shola paraphrase” of what she said-
What type of thinker are you?
Your thoughts govern your life and what you allow your […]